The Polite One's Insights

  The principals of Halloween Etiquette are no different from any other form of etiquette; everyone involved should display respect, consideration, and courtesy for others and their property.  But what are the rules of Halloween Etiquette?  Let’s review.  Treat-or-Treaters Respect People When receiving a treat, say “thank you,” even if it is a toothbrush.  No lights = no knock.  Darkened houses are off-limits.  We must assume they do not participate.  No knocking on doors after 8 pm.  Children are usually in bed by 8-8:30. Only ring the doorbell or knock on the door once.  Gather in groups no larger than five, more than that and children become too excited and noisy.  Many work outside the home and have no time to decorate.  If there is an outdoor light on but no decorations, assume that the homebodies didn’t have time to decorate.  They are fair game. If teens wish to trick or treat, they should dre...

  Halloween Etiquette Ghosts, ghouls, trick-or-treaters...oh my!  Halloween is the favorite holiday of many.  In fact, the national average, per-person spending on Halloween is well over $70. Since it appears we enjoy this holiday and enjoy sharing it with others, we really should consider the etiquette involved.   There are three major players in this Halloween game: trick -or-treaters, parents/escorts (those who escort the trick-or-treaters), and homebodies (candy suppliers).  Each of these players has very specific etiquette to follow.  Homies Those who choose to participate should make every effort to provide a safe environment by clearing the entry of anything that could be harmful to young ones.  Remember, they will be in costumes that may limit their eyesight. When they reach the door, smile, they are guests.  Offer candy to all, including escorts.   Besides the fact t...