Ghosts, ghouls, trick-or-treaters...oh my! Halloween is the favorite holiday of many. In fact, the national average, per-person spending on Halloween is well over $70. Since it appears we enjoy this holiday and enjoy sharing it with others, we really should consider the etiquette involved.
There
are three major players in this Halloween game: trick-or-treaters,
parents/escorts (those who escort the trick-or-treaters), and homebodies (candy
suppliers). Each of these players has very specific etiquette to
follow.
Homies
Those
who choose to participate should make every effort to provide
a safe environment by clearing the entry of anything that could be
harmful to young ones. Remember, they will be in costumes that may
limit their eyesight. When they reach the door, smile, they are
guests. Offer candy to all, including
escorts. Besides the fact that it's polite, it just might keep
the escorts' hand out of the child's bags. In addition, don't scare
the little ones! Decorations shouldn't be too realistic.
(Here's me in the KCRA/My 58 studios)
For
those non-participators, try to avoid becoming irritated with
revelers. They are enjoying themselves for just one
night. Turn off the lights, turn on a movie, and try to ignore the
noise.
Parents
Before
knocking on doors, prepare your children by giving them all the
rules. Choose this as your "teachable moment" for all
forms of respect and gratitude. Remind them to stay on the hardscape
and out of gardens and grass. They should knock quietly, say
"trick-or-treat" and "thank you", and step aside after
receiving treats. Other Spidermen may want to accept their treat as
well.
Note:
There is no bona fide rule about when the child is too old to
trick-or-treat. It's an individual decision. One rule is fair
though. If a person wants to trick-or-treat, that person should be in costume
and follow all the etiquette expected. A
Halloween Party would be best for those older children who don't feel
comfortable traveling door to door.
Trick-or-Treaters
R-E-S-P-E-C-T...sing it, Aretha. Want a full bag of goodies? Well, you have to give a little to get a little. Respecting people and property goes a long way to fulfill that goal.
Respect
homebodies by traveling in smaller groups, no larger than
five. Larger groups tend to be loud and
rambunctious. Don't knock if the lights are out. This is
the "signal" of the non-participant. In addition, only knock or ring
the doorbell once--never after 8 p.m. Remember to say "Thank
you" when given a treat, even if it isn't your
favorite. Finally, respect neighbor's grass and
flowerbeds by keeping feet on the sidewalk. And never touch anything
on the porch.
Please
Read
Everyday
Manners: Middle Schoolers Teach Us About Manners
How Children Are Teaching Their
Parents Manners
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