The
principals of Halloween Etiquette are
no different from any other form of etiquette; everyone involved should display
respect, consideration, and courtesy for others and their property. But what are the rules of Halloween Etiquette? Let’s review.
Treat-or-Treaters
Respect People
When
receiving a treat, say “thank you,” even if it is a toothbrush.
No
lights = no knock. Darkened houses
are off-limits. We must assume they do not
participate.
No
knocking on doors after 8 pm. Children
are usually in bed by 8-8:30.
Only
ring the doorbell or knock on the door once.
Gather
in groups no larger than five, more than that and children
become too excited and noisy.
Many
work outside the home and have no time to decorate. If there is an outdoor light on but no
decorations, assume that the homebodies didn’t have time to decorate. They are fair game.
If
teens wish to trick or treat, they should dress the part and so not knock after
8 pm.
Respect
Property
Stay
out of neighbors' grass and their flowerbeds.
Do
not touch anything on the porch.
Parents, Please Remind Children
Stay
out of gardens and off the grass.
Knock
quietly and say thank you kindly.
Be
courteous of other trick-or-treaters by stepping out of the way so they may
step up to the door.
Home Bodies
Do
not try to scare young children.
Smile
when answering the door; do not act as if it is an imposition. These revelers are your guests. Offer candy
to everyone who comes to your door, including the parents. Hey, they deserve a bit of Halloween
cheer.
Provide
a safe place for the children to visit.
Please do not decorate in a way that small children might hurt
themselves. And clean off your porch or
entry so your Halloween guests do not trip.
If
you choose not to participate, realize that it will be noisier than usual. However, it is only one evening. So, please do not become too upset or angry
with those who are enjoying the festivities.
When are Children Too Old to Trick-or-Treat?
Determining
whether a child is too old for trick or treating is an individual
decision. No one can make a blanket decision
about age. If you feel that your child
is too old to go trick or treating, perhaps you could assist in the planning of
a Halloween Party—safe and sane.
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