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Respect Goes a Long Way on Halloween

 

The principals of Halloween Etiquette are no different from any other form of etiquette; everyone involved should display respect, consideration, and courtesy for others and their property.  But what are the rules of Halloween Etiquette?  Let’s review. 

Treat-or-Treaters

Respect People

When receiving a treat, say “thank you,” even if it is a toothbrush. 

No lights = no knock.  Darkened houses are off-limits.  We must assume they do not participate. 

No knocking on doors after 8 pm.  Children are usually in bed by 8-8:30.

Only ring the doorbell or knock on the door once. 

Gather in groups no larger than five, more than that and children become too excited and noisy. 

Many work outside the home and have no time to decorate.  If there is an outdoor light on but no decorations, assume that the homebodies didn’t have time to decorate.  They are fair game.

If teens wish to trick or treat, they should dress the part and so not knock after 8 pm. 

Respect Property 

Stay out of neighbors' grass and their flowerbeds.

Do not touch anything on the porch. 

Parents, Please Remind Children

Stay out of gardens and off the grass.

Knock quietly and say thank you kindly.

Be courteous of other trick-or-treaters by stepping out of the way so they may step up to the door.

Home Bodies

Do not try to scare young children. 

Smile when answering the door; do not act as if it is an imposition.  These revelers are your guests. Offer candy to everyone who comes to your door, including the parents.  Hey, they deserve a bit of Halloween cheer. 

Provide a safe place for the children to visit.  Please do not decorate in a way that small children might hurt themselves.  And clean off your porch or entry so your Halloween guests do not trip.

If you choose not to participate, realize that it will be noisier than usual.  However, it is only one evening.  So, please do not become too upset or angry with those who are enjoying the festivities. 

When are Children Too Old to Trick-or-Treat?

Determining whether a child is too old for trick or treating is an individual decision.  No one can make a blanket decision about age.  If you feel that your child is too old to go trick or treating, perhaps you could assist in the planning of a Halloween Party—safe and sane.

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