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Planning for a Perfect Prom

 

Although snow may still lie on the ground, it's time to begin planning for your prom.  There are many decisions to make, from transportation, attire, and dinner. Most importantly, who will be your date? 

Covid Warning: This advice is based on all of us being protected from a deadly virus.  Please be safe and wait until it is safe to socialize.  

How to Begin?

If you decide to go, ask your date, or accept an invitation early. This gives you time to coordinate your attire.  Additionally, if your date is from another school, inform him/her of the proper attire.

May I go to the Prom alone?

There is nothing wrong in attending solo or with a group of friends.  In fact, this might be preferable as there is less stress; you don't have to try to please anyone.  If attending with friends, include them in the transportation and dinner planning. 

How will you get there?

Hiring a limousine is a popular option but can be awfully expensive.  Call around for rates, as these vary greatly.  Include parents in the decision but remember this is your financial responsibility.  Earn money to pay for it and split the fee with friends.  Also, remember to tip the driver.  This is not cheap!  Generally, tips are 20% of the fee. 

However, a limo is not the only mode of transportation. If a parent has a special or unique vehicle, perhaps this person can play chauffeur for the evening.  A taxi may be an option if shared, but a tip is expected. Then again, there is nothing wrong in driving yourself in a regular-everyday vehicle.  If you drive, stay sober!  Still, you're too young to drink anyway.  So, eliminate alcohol from your list of must-haves for the evening.   

What to Wear?

Most often proms are formal affairs, which dictate long gowns and tuxedos. However, semi-formal may also be an option.  In this case, short dresses and dinner jackets or sport coats and ties would be most appropriate.  Gentlemen, if you choose to wear a tuxedo, avoid the temptation to exercise your uniqueness.  You'll find many colors to choose from, but basic black is the best choice.  It is classy, suave, and not likely to embarrass your date.  If you want to blend with the color of her dress, do so with a vest, corsage, or tie--not the entire tuxedo.   

Ladies, it may be best to wear a wrap or shawl if yours is a strapless dress.  Wear your gloves over rings and bracelets and remove them during dinner.  Additionally, to save money, check out your local thrift, consignment stores, and online recourses for used dresses. 

Don't Forget the Flowers!

Generally, the young man purchases a flower – corsage, nosegay, or wristlet – to match the color of his date's dress.  In turn, she will give him a boutonniere or flower for his lapel.  Commonly, this is a rose or carnation. 

Selecting flowers in season will save you money.  Alternatively, a crafty person can create these.

Where will you Dine?

Often, part of the prom night experience is dining together.  If dinner is not provided at the prom venue, you may want to take your date to a restaurant.  Prom night may be a busy night for the restaurants in your area, so make your reservations early.  Request a quiet table away from the kitchen, front door, and restrooms.  However, to save money, one of you can host dinner at your home.  If dinner isn't part of your plans, simply begin your date after dinner.

Please Read

Sweet & Simple Prom Etiquette Explained

Etiquette 101: What to do on the Night of the Prom

Prom Etiquette: Planning a Perfect Prom Q & A


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