Whether
it's the delicious cheeses of Wisconsin, world-class wines of California, or
the unmatched beauty of our national parks, most of us are proud of what we
have to offer here in the US. In fact, when
out-of-town visitors come knocking, we typically go out of our way to show off
the best of our little hamlet.
Still,
how many of us apply this same measure of pride or effort for foreign
tourists? Granted, serving as a tour guide
daily may be near to impossible for those living in touristy locations, such as
San Francisco. Nevertheless, simple
courtesy doesn't take much effort. After
all, we are all ambassadors of our country whether we are at home or
abroad.
Consider
how you would want to be treated.
As
an etiquette teacher, I teach that the basic tenet of 'manners' is to treat
others as we wish to be treated.
Therefore, it is only good manners to treat our foreign
guests with kindness and courtesy. For
instance, when at the airport, try to realize that a foreigner may have been
traveling hours, perhaps days, to get here.
So if they appear frustrated and confused, empathize and assist them any way you can.
Having
felt that confusion many times as a foreign tourist, I empathize. For example, my husband and I were running in
circles in an Italian
airport trying to find the exact
location where a van was to retrieve us.
We didn't know much Italian and didn't know what to do. Luckily, a pleasant Italian woman noticed us
and offered her assistance. She called
our hotel, found out where we needed to be, and showed us where to go. Because of her kindness, we will remember her
always.
Be a
good host.
Crossing
our state borders can be a bit confusing even for US citizens at times. Just one example is a toll road, which is
completely foreign to me. I've never
encountered one here at home, thus wouldn't know what to do. So, imagine how foreigners might feel as they
attempt to navigate an unknown city.
Fold in our various accents and euphemisms...total confusion.
Once
upon a great vacation, my husband and I were lost in Paris. Jabbering to each other while standing on a
street corner, map in hand and pointing in all different directions, a pleasant
young Frenchman approached us smiling. Most
politely, he walked us down the block and pointed us in the right direction.
Let
us challenge ourselves to be just as hospitable. When approached by an apparent foreign
tourist, smile and try to appear
welcoming. Talk slowly, annunciating
each word. If they are lost and if time
allows, walk them to where they need to be or draw them a map.
Respect
visitor's culture.
The
peoples of every country have their own set of behavior expectations, better
known as etiquette or protocol. When we
travel, many of us try to learn what some of those expectations are. However, none of us can know all
expected behaviors or the etiquette of every culture. It would be best to remember this when
observing foreign tourists. They may
push in line, avoid eye contact, or spit in the street. Although we may find these behaviors ill-mannered,
they may be quite acceptable and common in their country.
Respect
our tourists by remembering that they live by a different set of etiquette
rules. Hey, we may appear ill-mannered to
them when visiting their country.
Please
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