Confident
and Responsible
What
surprised me from the beginning was how direct these young people are, even the
12-year-olds. All made excellent eye
contact, were poised, and confident—very well-mannered. I expected that at
least some would find my question odd, but no.
They all found it interesting; with some stating that they had not
considered their role in younger people's lives much. That is not surprising considering their age. However, those who verbalized this revelation
also noted that since they realize it now, they would take their role more
seriously in the future. Interestingly,
many adults don't come to this realization.
Ever.
How would
you teach a young child manners?
Nearly
every young teen stated that they would teach by example. They would show their student, not
just tell them. Incredibly all
understood that it is equally important to teach body language, such as sitting
correctly. Social skills were high on
the list of items to model as well, such as how to interact with others in a
positive manner.
Beatrice,
age 14, asserted, "When I see them doing something disrespectful, I'd
point it out asking them how they should have done it." Kelly, also 14, adds, "I'd teach the
child to be respectful to everyone no matter who they are or what they look
like."
Tess,
age 13, suggests giving them examples, telling stories, and asking questions,
such as "How do you want others to view you?" "How do you want
to be treated? She also believes that
little ones want to be viewed as older.
She adds, "I would help them understand that if they act mature,
others will treat them as if they are.
They will trust you more and you will get more out of it."
Maylee,
age 14, has a specific plan to teach manners.
She states, "I would begin by teaching the child to greet people
politely. After all, this is the first
thing a person learns when studying another language: to greet people politely
and not rude."
Out
of the thirty young people interviewed, not one found manners to be elitist or
snobby. All believed that it is an
important element that helps build a more civil society.
Please
Read
How Children Are Teaching Their
Parents Manners
What do Good
Manners mean to Middle Schoolers?
RAK in Davis: A
remarkable young man displays kindness toward a stranger
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