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Just the Facts: Royal Wedding Reception Etiquette


 Rebecca Black’s interview on location with the anchors of CW 31 KOVR

Even though this interview and event was years ago, I still feel the thrill of narrating the etiquette involved as it played out.  Here are my fast and furious tidbits of tips. 

If Invited to the Wedding Breakfast...

  • Remember your table manners.
  • Choose the outermost utensil and watch others if not sure of your utensil usage.
  • When drinking tea, pick up your teacup, not the saucer. Hold the stem with index finger and thumb.

If Invited to the Reception…

  • Arrive at least 20 minutes early.
  • Remember to use basic manners and courtesy.
  • Dress to blend in and not to turn heads.
  • Don't wear red or anything brightly colored.
  • Do not drink to excess.
  • Hold wine glasses by the stem.
  • Don't slurp.

If Invited to Any Portion of the Event...

  • Don't do anything to bring attention to yourself.
  • Turn off cellphones and no texting.
  • Leave cameras at home.

If Meeting the Queen...

  • Curtsey –very slight dip for women— or nod your head, wait for her to offer her hand.
  • Don't ask questions, but answer hers briefly, following with Your Majesty.

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