Political Etiquette For all Situations

Discussing politics is a potentially divisive subject. So great care should be taken to choose the right place and the right audience for our discussions. And since we are in a never-ending season of mega-politics, it is best to discuss some etiquette to consider.

Consider the right forum before beginning the conversation

Don’t forget your basic manners
Respect
Consideration
Courtesy
No interrupting
Listen to other’s opinions

Work and Politics Don’t Mix

We can create an “us against them” atmosphere when discussing politics at work. Plus, it could change our working relationships when our workmates discover we are one of “them.”

I doubt any of us wants to hear, “Oh my, she is a bleeding-heart liberal or right-wing conservative” as we pass our workmates.

Social settings are often not ideal for political discussions

Even at a seemingly pleasant dinner party, we could create an “Us against them” atmosphere, which isn’t polite or fair.

Elicit political preferences privately and with great care

Consider that if you ask, you will receive an answer you might not be prepared to hear. Be fair and listen if you two disagree politically. It is also polite to agree to disagree.

Choose to stay mum

It is a choice. We can decide to decline or change the subject.

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